6 October 2014

QUESTION ONE - Does penis size matter to women?

The penis is not the primary sex organ of the woman, the clitoris is. For most women the clitoris is the source of orgasms and it is important to remember that the clitoris has hundreds of nerve endings, each woman is wired differently and likes their clitoris handled differently. It's important to note that the clitoris is shaped like a wishbone with the visible tip in the vulva and then the legs curving around the vagina. I recommend Sophia Wallace's art Cliteracy 101 for some easy to read information on the clitoris, and do your own research. And then, with each partner, communicate fully so you know what your partner likes in regards to her clitoris and you can suggest new techniques for reaching orgasm through her primary sexual organ. And that full communication will allow you to talk about your primary sexual organ as well!

QUESTION TWO - Why do young men indulge in dangerous and criminal behaviour?

Young men in our society are isolated from loving touch at a young age, and given aggression and competition as their only outlet for emotion and ambition very early in life. Ask yourself whether young men are encouraged to be gentle and understanding emotionally and intellectually in society and in the economy. Ask yourself if young men are hugged by family and friends regularly in social situations. Ask yourself if young men have the economic options to be stay-at-home fathers, carers and teachers. Ask yourself if young men are earmarked for jobs that value their well-being, or jobs that require mental and physical strain and relentless work?

QUESTION THREE - unwanted kissing excused as a 'greeting'

The protocol is, of course, that you have absolute control over consent regarding your body. If you ask someone to stop touching you in a way you don't like, they should do what you ask. Your body, your choice and full consent.

QUESTION FOUR - Christian wife wants to pray for a baby, and not use IVF

Your wife makes the decisions for her body. You can communicate with her, and provide her with information from other sources, but she is in charge of her own body.

QUESTION FIVE - Australian surveillance laws are perfectly excellent

You are presuming, of course, that you will always be doing things that are perfectly legal at the time, and no retrospective laws that make your activity illegal will be passed. If you wish to always be legal, you will need to follow the legislation carefully so you can be sure you are considered a 'good citizen' now, in the past and into the future. The media report the changes in legislation and application of the legislation, which is why freedom of the press is so important in a democracy.

QUESTION SIX - when to give 'the sex talk' to children

Perhaps let's look at this positively - if you have had ongoing and open communication with your children about sex, they will continue to come to you when the questions arise, and you can be part of the conversation they have with all the other influences in their lives. If you don't have that open channel with them, you will miss all the important things.